Turning 30.

What better way to turn 30 than a week-long celebration of favorite eats, discovering new places and epic performances? Since my birthday fell on a Tuesday this week, I took advantage and indulged myself through two weekends to celebrate. No holds barred. No want gone unwanted.

Yoga.
I guess you could say it all started at Purple Yoga on the Saturday before my birthday. This is the first time I took my mom and I quickly learned that at 52, my mom kicks my butt in both cardio and endurance departments. Kind of an embarrassing realization at 30.

Shau May.
Nothing beats a late night run for Shanghai pan fried dumplings in San Gabriel. Did the usual, and ended it with sipping on a mango delight on the car ride back home.

Alcove Cafe & Bakery.
On Sunday, Max and I took the dogs for brunch in Los Feliz. It was Max's first time and the food was delish, as always. We shared some crab cakes to start and I had the country breakfast. Cora was a little barky (as usual) but we were able to keep the two somewhat under control. This was Lulu's first real outing since her radiation therapy.


Hollywood Bowl.
Later that night Max and I went to the Hollywood Bowl for a performance of RENT directed by Neil Patrick Harris. The show was amazing, a gazillion times better than the time I watched it at the OCPAC. The cast was captivating and talented (especially Aaron Tveit as Roger and Nicole Scherzinger as Maureen) with the exception of Vanessa Hudgens as Mimi who made certain scenes just flat out awkward. We shared some great prosciutto, cheese and breadsticks and had probably the best time I've ever had at the Hollywood Bowl.

Good Stuff.
Even though my week was full of meetings and (gasp) work, Max and I happened to sneak away to Good Stuff on Tuesday for an actual birthday lunch. I only had 50 minutes and because of the long wait for a table, we ended up rushing through the lunch and spent almost the entire time on our respective phones, answering e-mails and IMs. Oh well.

Surprise party.
At 3pm I was thoroughly surprised at work with a Susie's Cakes celebration cake, gorgeous flowers from Effusive flowers and, well, Max. He and Jo-Anne set up a fake meeting for me and some of my favorite co-workers joined for a quick cake break. Max won major points with the co-workers.

Ayaka.
After work we took the long trek to Diamond Bar to take Emi and Ayaka out to dinner. We said hi to my Athai and family and then headed to Guppy's in Rowland Heights for a quick dinner.

Ridiculously good looking people.
My sisters surprised me at home with an epic ViJo production. Yona blindfolded me as soon as I arrived and walked me into a completely redecorated living room. They set up an entire stage complete with curtains and stage lights. The show was funny, heart-warming, sentimental and ridiculous all at the same time. I was so touched that they spent so much time putting this together, and put so much effort in performing it!

Bottega Louie.
On Wednesday we headed up to Bottega Louie after work for a quick dinner before a show at the Staples Center. This was our first time there (I got the idea from seeing Flo's pictures from lunch earlier in the day) and we were so impressed with the place! The entire restaurant/market/bakery had raised architectural ceilings, almost like an old bank. The place was white and airy and the food was so good. We shared the portobello fries which I still dream about and two pastas that were great, but not spectacular. I wish we had a place like that near work. And I also wish I had enough of an appetite after dinner to order some desserts and pastries.

Lady Gaga.
After dinner we went to Lady Gaga's Monster Ball Tour at Staples Center. It was a-ma-zing. We had great premium seats (from Max's work) that were really close to the stage, but unfortunately we were perfectly situated to the side of the stage. We saw her profile the entire time and sat right underneath the LCD display so our visibility was a little compromised. We were a little distracted by the 'little monsters' around us -- some young, some old, some high and some barely clothed -- but all in all it was an amazing show and quite the experience.


Mermaid Restaurant.
Milton and I shared a happy birthday happy hour at a dive bar called Mermaid Restaurant in Hermosa Beach (his choice). I rode over there with Jo-Anne and Megan and Max met us a little later when he was done with work. We started with some light drinks and ended up ordering sandwiches and such for dinner -- it wasn't half bad! I have to say though we were the youngest people there. And the most Asian.

Beach Par-Tay.
And the partying continues, though this one was work sanctioned. Our annual summer party was at the Beach House Inn in Hermosa Beach. After a morning of hectic work, client reviews and internal meetings, we all headed to the beach for a half day party. There were sandwiches from Jersey Mike's, lots of drinks and various activities like massage stations, live music, volleyball games and an Over the Line tournament. I left a little early but had a decent time just lounging inside the suite. (The weather was much too cold for an actual beach party, sadly.)

Shopping + Food.
On Saturday Max and I headed to Rodeo Drive for some lunch and shopping. We had lunch at Il Pastaio (Max's first time, my second) and it was very good. (Sense a theme here?) We had what was probably the best prosciutto I've had in my life, some burrata, a zuppetta (clams & muscles in garlic tomato broth) and a lasagna. Needless to say we were stuffed and got up promptly to walk it off. We headed to Christian Dior to size my finger for my birthday gift, an 'Oui' ring, but not before wandering into Ilori and buying me a pair of sunglasses, one of my many self birthday gifts this year. There are two situations where I completely indulge in shopping for myself: when I'm on vacation and the weeks leading up to and after my birthday.

Bergamot Station.
We headed to Bergamot Cafe afterwards for some coffee (easiest way to get some Intelligentsia coffee that I know of) and stopped by Hiromi Paper to say hi to the sisters and to a few of the gallery showings to gawk at art.

"Drinking night."
Drinking night was a complete failure. We all had a large pho dinner at Pho Tasty and were too stuffed (and bloated) to drink anything at the Korean drinking place we found in Cypress (called Royal Square). So after a poor attempt to down some beer and soju, we gave up and went to music studio for karaoke instead. Yona was a remote nazi, skipping every song she didn't like, Aai sang too loud, Henri took himself way too seriously, Vina sang her usual eclectic choice of songs and Max was too shy to sing into the mic. I wasn't.

Athai's again.
We visited Athai again but this time took my mom + sisters. Kee Kiu was also over. We hung out for a few hours just talking and catching up. It's the most amazing thing in the world to be able to spend my birthday with my 92-year old great grandmother!

Irvine.
On Sunday I had my "main" birthday party. My sisters, friends and various family met up in Irvine to watch Eat Pray Love and then we headed over to Tokyo Table to indulge ourselves in lobster dynamite, mochi gratin and honey toast. And about 20 other dishes. We stuffed ourselves silly, had great conversations and ended it with sake bombs. Oh, and we took sticker pictures.

Sick day.
On Monday, Max and I took a sick day to join Mason and Marcela for brunch at Old Vine Cafe. We had a nice quiet meal and then walked around to shop a little. Then we headed to South Coast Plaza so that Max and Marcela could spend their gift certificates on sunglasses. After that we headed separate ways and Max and I shopped for some patio furniture. After complete failure, we headed home to rest, and then back up to LA to pick up my 'Oui' ring. Even though we arrived in Beverly Hills half an hour before the store closed, Olympic Blvd. was completely shut down for President Obama's visit and we were unable to crossover to Dior before they closed. Instead we joined Yona and Aai for dinner at Il Buco. I am IN LOVE. The pizza was delicious, the calamari was perfect, the prosciutto was heavenly (same restaurant group as Il Pastaio) and the pastas were tasty. Oh, did I mention how perfect the apple tart was?

Ok, I am spoiled.

More Doing

Today marked my first weekend of more doing, less complaining about not doing. I took Friday off to keep a closer eye on Lulu since this week will be the last of the worst. I ran a few errands: went to the dry cleaners for what seemed like the first time this year, picked up some bird seeds at Petco and set up my new bird feeder.


Later that night I drove up to Little Tokyo to meet up with Max, Vina and Henri for dinner. We arrived a little early for our Sushi Gen reservation so we had Happy Hour at Haru Ulala first. This was my first time at Sushi Gen and I was quite impressed. It's been a while since I've had good sushi and this really reminded me again that the sushi/Japanese selection around home is crap.

On Saturday I woke up a little later than I would have liked but was able to make it to the 1PM Hot Yoga class. This was the first time I've done it so early in the day, luckily it wasn't too hot out. After yoga Max and I went to Mimi's Cafe to share a plate of chicken tenders. They weren't as tasty as I remember them to be in high school but it was a nice, quick, light lunch. (Except for the giant French Onion soup with 1000 grams of sodium.) After our lunch outside we went to Trader Joe's to shop for groceries for dinner. We invited Max's mom and Ivan over to finish up the steaks from Robinson's Prime Reserve.

I looked up a couple of recipes online and decided to make white truffle risotto and butterscotch budino. (The recipe was from Pizzeria Mozza) Both dishes came out good but weren't very popular -- the risotto was too heavy and I think everyone thought the budino was too sweet/flavored. Which is how it's supposed to taste but I didn't have any cookies to help balance it out.

Later that night Yona and Aai came over to spend the night. We had our usual 1-hour of bickering about what tv show/ movie/ netflix/ appleTV to watch and then I called it a night.

Today (Sunday) I work up a little earlier (10am) and made omelets for everyone. After breakfast Max made us all coffee. I took a couple of minutes to prune the garden and realized the empty dirt patches in the front really bugged me so Max and I visited Martinez nursery and Home Depot for some plants. I wanted a perennial or evergreen border around our front steps so we wouldn't have to worry about replacing them all the time but we didn't find much selection. We found more flowers to fill out the front, hopefully they're the type that are evergreen in Southern California. I also took all of our dead/dying cosmos out from the front and replanted the ones that were "salvageable" in the back. Seems like I'm starting a little patch of "random flowers" in the back, let's hope it doesn't grow to look too awkward.

After buying plants we went to play tennis at Shadow Park with my sisters. We did an hour of tennis, did a singles tournament, then played basketball. After I stubbed my toe we abandoned the basketball courts and went to the mall to get some cherry lemonade. Walking into the food court got all of us hungry so we headed to The Loft for a proper dinner.

We came home to a messy house -- the plants we bought earlier had to be planted, the dishes from the morning weren't done, the downstairs was a mess from having 4 dogs running around all day. Of course a cluttered house means a cluttered mind for me so I'm doing a little here and there to get the house presentable so I can relax in these last few hours of the weekend. I guess it's time to mop now.

Summer Recap

So apparently not only did I not survive June, I let July fly by as well. Here is a rundown of the craziness of this summer.

Lulu's mast cell tumor.
This was of course the one that threw us all for a loop. Right when I was getting comfortable with my financial plan and getting everything in order, life takes me, chews me up, slaps me around and spits me out. All about Lulu's fight for cancer here.

iPhone 4 for everyone. And their moms.
I love and hate my iPhone 4. Love everything that it is, hated that I waited 11 hours in line for it. I reserved my iPhone 4 at the Manhattan Beach Apple store since I wasn't able to get through to purchase online. Little did I know, so did a thousand other people so the line for reservations took all day. Somewhere in between I had Aai wait with me for a couple of hours, take my place for another couple of hours, Milton bring me lunch and then ended the day with Milton and I finally getting our iPhones at 7:30pm. That day I ordered Aai's online and Max did the same for him and Ivan. Later that week (when it was clear stores would never have unreserved stock) I put mommy and Vina on the waitlist. It's been several weeks and now we all have iPhone 4s. Well, except for Yona who is saving herself for a white one.

Backyard grilling.
We had our first backyard grill yesterday, although there wasn't much "backyard" happening except for Max grilling steaks while keeping Shadow and Cora away to prevent them from knocking over the grill. Vina, Henri, Aai and I were inside preparing the rest of the meal: broccoli puree soup, trufflex mashed potatoes and macaroni and cheese. It was the perfect meal. The steaks were from Robinsons Prime Reserve and the tastiest ever, Max snuck open a bottle of Overture and the side dishes came out perfect. (Except the potatoes could have used more cheese + salt) Now I'm dying to finish out outdoor area so we've been shopping around for patio sets. Though based on outdoor furniture pricing, we will likely be shopping around for a while.

Work is busy.
But when is it not? I am still the only "experience architect" at the agency and this week started being shared across all accounts. That's not fun when you take into account all of the institutionalized knowledge attributed to each business. The COPA laws associated with marketing to young children online. The bank's seemingly hundreds of products and features associated with mortgages. Investing advice for retirees over 50. My brain is tired.

Things are about to get crazy.

There are so many things "about to happen" that I feel compelled to write a pre-cap. The weekdays have been pretty dead at work, so much so that it has prompted me to update my resume and start a collection of samples for a portfolio. There are a lot of transitions happening, the largest being that I am back to being a department of one. This is good in the sense that I have full control of developing how UX will integrate with the agency's creative and strategic process, but bad in that I am now stuck with the busy work of our more monotonous clients. But, starting this week I have begun to feel the effects as I am spending less time at my desk and more time doodling in meetings.

So in addition to being spread thin on all accounts + the occasional pitch, I'm also bogged down handling life stuff during work hours. I spent three hours on phone/e-mail/texting arranging auto insurance for all three sisters. I spent a good part of today working out business license/tax stuff for Closet Therapy. (Darn you City of Los Angeles for trying to make money off of me!) I will be spending the next two mornings at the doctor and dentist. And my lunches are booked for random co-worker birthday lunches, baby showers and a creative happy hour.

This Saturday I am taking Max to a surprise event, so more on that after the reveal, but the next morning we are flying to Vegas to spend a long weekend at the Wynn. We'll hopefully get some good eating, shopping and photo-taking done! After that it will be a short week at work and then doggie beach on the weekend.

The week after will be a huge week (hopefully) with the release (announcement?) of iPhone HD. Hopefully the new iPhone will be available right away so I can have a functional smartphone for the rest of June's planned trips! So that brings us to mid-June, where Max and I will be going on our 3rd NorCal trip. It'll be my first time staying at the W and I am really looking forward to spending a day in the city alone capturing photographs while Max is at his conference. We are ending the trip with a short day in Napa -- mostly to have brunch at Ad Hoc.

Then at the end of June I will be returning to Las Vegas solo on a journalists tour for my blog. 4 days all expenses paid -- sounds too good to be true. I don't have all of the details yet but I've checked out the PR company and so far everything sounds legit. Now it's just getting over the fear of spending four full days with a bunch of strangers... nerve-racking yet exciting at the same time!

The tour ends on Friday so I'll be back at home just in time for a 4th of July BBQ if we decide to have one. If we do, that means we'll have to get a patio set and grill for the backyard ASAP.

Oh boy, will I survive June?

Weekend Recap

I had an interesting weekend full of babies and puppies. After all, it is Spring time right? On Saturday Olivia Zee had her red egg & ginger party. I think red egg parties are traditionally celebrated when the baby is 1 month but in Livi's case, it was her 100th day party. The brunch was set at Descanso Gardens and deliciously catered by Patina. After watching the baby festivities we took a nice stroll through the gardens to enjoy the roses in bloom among other cool plants.



On Sunday we had a puppy reunion at Runyon Canyon. Bori (Lady) and Dulce (Soda) came out to meet Cora for a hike. The route we take is getting pretty easy (probably because we walk it so slowly) so it was more of a hectic dog walk than anything else. It's so interesting to see how each of the puppies grew into their own personalities. Bori is territorial and protective -- and what a barker! Soda is such a sweetie and the smallest out of the three. So, what does that make Cora? She's still the crazy one...